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Jonathan Safran Foer

Kids are a great analogy. You want your kids to grow up, and you don't want your kids to grow up. You want your kids to become independent of you, but it's also a parent's worst nightmare: That they won't need you. It's like the real tragedy of parenting.

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Parents feel torn because they hope their children will become self-sufficient, yet they also fear losing the close connection that comes from being needed. This creates a painful conflict where the success of raising independent kids feels like a personal loss.

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