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Erich Fromm

The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent.

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A mother must give deep and powerful love to her child, but this love involves encouraging the child to separate and develop their own identity. This creates a difficult tension because the mother's care both connects and ultimately distances them as the child becomes independent.

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